Sometimes you have to give your little a spanking not because she has been bad, not because it's her maintenance day, not because you feel like giving one, but because she needs one.
She needs to feel the relief of being able to cry away her stress and anxiety, she needs to feel the security and safety of being over her caregiver's lap, she needs the feeling of a strong hand giving her guidance and setting her straight, but most of all, she needs to feel loved and cared for. To feel like her caregiver's arms will protect her from all the evils in the world. She needs to feel little.
And if it's your desire to be a caregiver or Daddy or Mommy or Dom or whatever, you better make damn sure you're prepared to take on this heavy responsibility. Not for me, but for her. Because we both know in our hearts that she's worth it.